When a man is suffering from impotence, or has erection problems often during or before intercourse, it can cause a lot of stress in their personal relationship.

When a man is unable to satisfy his partner, it is going to make them feel down and depressed, and it’s going to make the partner feel stressed as well.

The male is unable to satisfy his partner and his partner is left feeling rejected and unattractive. Often the issue doesn’t get talked about as the male feels ashamed and defensive and the partner doesn’t want to hurt his feelings or may feel embarrassed and upset themselves.

This is mentally difficult for both parties involved, and the relationship will start lack physical intimacy unless the problem is dealt with.

 Finding the cause of the impotency can help the man overcome the problem, and an impotence clinic can often help to diagnose the cause of the impotency. The reasons behind impotency can range from physical issues, mental problems and health and diet issues so it really is best to get advice from a doctor rather than sweeping it under the carpet or trying to self diagnose.

There are many prescription medications that could be causing this problem, so perhaps see if there are any connections with new medication and impotence. 

 People who have noticed the problem after starting on a new medication should consult their doctor. Other factors could be a health condition like heart disease or kidney disease, and other chronic illnesses. Stress, lack of exercise, and psychological disorders could also be causing this to occur. Alcohol can also be a reason for erectile dysfunction and we have all heard of ‘brewer’s droop’ haven’t we. The patient should get tests done to detect what exact condition or problem is causing the impotency, and as soon as the doctor has the information needed they can diagnose the erection problems, and prescribe a solution for the patient.

For most cases, there are prescription medications that can be taken to help with the symptoms of erectile dysfunction. 

 This is one of the easiest ways to treat the problem. For people who are living an unhealthy lifestyle, the physician may recommend a diet plan and exercise program. Antidepressants may be prescribed for someone who is dealing with the condition due to psychological issues. In few cases surgery is needed to cure the impotency. Once a treatment is found, the couple can work together and start to regain a normal sex life. This needs lots of love and open, honest communication to work. Couples may feel better by having some sort of couple therapy if they are struggling with the issue.

A man may feel less manly when they are having a problem with impotency.

And it can make their partner feel unwanted and unattractive and they can worry that perhaps their partner doesn’t feel the same about them anymore.

Impotence can cause a lot of pain and distress emotionally for both people in the relationship. Erection problems can cause severe depression, lower self-esteem, and cause a man to withdrawal emotionally from their partner.

Finding a solution to the problem is going to allow the couple to live a more normal life, with a healthy sexual and emotional relationship with their partner. If you have impotency problems get treatment as quickly as possible to save your relationship, and to live a more fulfilling life. It isn’t anything to be embarrassed about, it is very common among men and there is a lot of support out there.

Guest post by: Catherine Howarth